The Truth About Failure: Why It’s the Secret to Great Leadership Feat. Jim Murphy

They conflate and confuse significance and  recognition with love and connection because

it feels very similar. Our deepest need as  humans is for love and connection. Our greatest

fear is rejection. Western culture has this  affluenza virus. This virus of the heart that's

obsessed about uh how you look. And you know I  mentioned the acronym the palms for possessions,   achievements, looks, money and status. It's  because we have this deep need for love and

acceptance. And if I get the possessions and  looks, theoretically I'm going to get the love   that I want. The thing is, you have your top  goals in your life, but are they even good for